The Relationships Series: Erotic knowledge and skills

Let’s talk about the bedroom … (Did your stomach just drop, it’s OK … hang with me.)

Understanding what gets you going in the bedroom is not just about physical fun, it's about building something deep and satisfying.

Here's why it's important:

You know that feeling when you're so in sync with your partner, it's like you can read each other's minds?

Well, having some erotic know-how takes that connection to a whole new level. When you both know what makes the other tick, sparks can fly.

Ever wish you could just read your partner's mind in the bedroom? Well, good news – you can!

By opening up and talking about your desires, boundaries, and fantasies, you'll create a safe space where you can both explore and experiment without holding back.

Let's face it – great sex is a game-changer.

When you've got the skills to blow your partner's mind, every encounter becomes an electrifying experience. Plus, the more you explore and try new things together, the hotter it gets!

Sharing intimate moments isn't just about physical pleasure – it's about building a deeper emotional connection. When you're both invested in each other's pleasure, you'll feel closer than ever before.

Long-term relationships can sometimes fall into a routine, but having some erotic tricks up your sleeve can keep things fresh and exciting. It’s important to know that there's always something new to discover together.

If you want to have good relationships but you’re not sure how you’re doing in the area of erotic knowledge and skills ask yourself these questions:

  • Do you acknowledge that seeking pleasure is a legitimate pursuit?

  • Are you able to give and receive pleasure?

  • Can you both offer and enjoy pleasure?

  • Are you attuned to both your own erotic desires and those of others?

  • Do you have sensual skills to give pleasure and learn about different partner's desires?

  • Are you comfortable expressing your sexual needs and guiding partners in meeting them?

  • Do you know that there are so many different ways to have sex? Do you know what’s on the menu?

OK, send a response to this email about what you just noticed so we can work on this together. It’s so important.

Odelia Shargian